Monday, October 13, 2008

To Me, Everyone is a Kid

To me, everyone is a kid, but only the things that satisfy their desires change. For example, as a kid your desire is to have a wonderful toy than your neighborhood friend's, as you grow to an adulthood, the desire remains the same, except that the wonderful toy is replaced by a wonderful car. Contrastingly, if it's so, why can't we call everyone as adult, as the desire is constant for both adult and kid. That's a very good opposing point of view. But, I still stick to my opinion, not by being stubborn though, but with a proper reason. I observed many people (or the so-called adults) are as demanding as kids. They quarrel like kids, if not butcher others, to get what they want. Their first priority is what they want, and do not care what others think of them. This is exactly what kids do. By observing this behavior, I feel more happy to classify them as kids than adults. I believe that even God, if he exists, is a kid. He has a desire to create us, nature, and the laws. I don't know whether he quarreled with Satan to realize his desire, but he might have got a tremendous pleasure of realizing what he wants, like kids. Otherwise, he wouldn't have created us, if his creation is boring.

Though this concept seems convincing to some, there is a chance of getting mis leaded. If you consider everyone as kid, you may tend to ignore them, as kids' ideas/opinions are often ignored. I argue that if you take this concept literally, you'll certainly get mis leaded. In my opinion, no body is less or more. Everybody has some thing good to learn from. In fact, everybody is a mix of good and bad. I would tell you not to ignore adults as such, but only their childish behaviors. Be aware of those behaviors, and treat those as we treat kids, and take those behaviors in a light-hearted manner.

I believe that having such mind-set would keeps us from taking things personally, if somebody hurts us: both physically and emotionally. Ask yourself, do you really care if a five year old scolds you, instead you might love to take him on your lap and kiss him, and to some extent try to mend him. Still, if the kid is too tough to deal with, just leave him, and move on. There are many kids out there to play with.

1 comment:

Be Alpsholic!! said...

A very good article. The spiritual philosophy, thats why, says that we should treat everybody equally. Of course all are equal as long as you as you are consciously passive towards their "kiddish" behaviour.